one of my friends posted one of his infamous question of the day's on this status and it was about girls going back to a shitty ex. one of his friends posted that girls lack common sense. i mean, no hate at all but c'mon? what about guys? that comment struck a nerve with me the first time and it did again with this question of the day. so my essay of a comment read as follows:
"it's not just girls who lack common sense you know... what about the guys that already have a good girl but play around on them anyway??? they're even more stupid for ruining a good thing. and when they ruin that good thing, guess what? they ruin the girl too. same thing vice versa. no one is actually crazy, stupid, a ho, a bitch, or an asshole bf to begin with... i think we all drive each other to those points with lack of communication, trust, and unconditional love in a relationship... it's a vicious cycle that must exist otherwise the game of life and love would be boring as fuck and no one would ever learn anything.
and as for the subject of exes running back to their shitty exes... sometimes when people break up with someone they go back because the good outweighs the bad and they have their own reasons for loving that person the way they do and going back. yeah, a girl's (or guy's) ex may be shitty in your eyes but that may be because when they vent to you that's what they're doing... they VENT... meaning they're only complaining about the bad stuff and you hardly hear about the good no matter how much good shit there is. only the two people in that particular relationship really know what's up in THEIR relationship and only they can judge whether or not it's worth saving or going back to. besides if they're happy going back to that ex and they're willing to live with it and endure it, so be it. live and let live. love and let love. ya digg? but wtf do i know? i'm just as fucked up as everyone else about this shit... we're just gonna have to accept that we're all trapped in a case of the blind leading the blind. lmao
sorry about the essay. but you know... i'm just sayin. lol"
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